If forgiveness is an option, you’ve got a fighting chance. If you’re not willing to forgive, all you will do is keep on fighting.
I’m not saying that forgiveness is easy and I’m not saying forgiveness will solve the problem (some people will not accept forgiveness), and I certainly am not saying that forgiveness is always deserved (it seldom is).
But I am saying that until you’re willing to forgive, there is no hope of resolving some issues and bringing about reconciliation.
So, be honest…
What specifically would it take to for you to forgive?
Until you know the answer to that question, best to just keep your mouth shut for the only thing that will come out is hurt, angry and blame and that will never solve anything.
The ONE THING for today: If forgiveness is an option, you’ve got a fighting chance. If you’re not willing to forgive all you will do is keep on fighting.