There is a world of difference between doing something to get it done and doing something because you love someone.   

• Doing something because it’s your duty – that is noble. 
• Doing something because you love to do it – that is fun. 
• Doing something because you love someone – that is what makes life worth living.

1 Peter 4:8 (NKJV)

And above all things have fervent love for one another, for “love will cover a multitude of sins.”