The one thing that you must not ask is, “What do I want?” What you want is to be comfortable and most of the time that is exactly what you should be. Instead of asking “What do I want?” Let me give you a better question. Ask, “What result do I need to create?”
Whether you’re talking about relationships or tasks, this question moves you from being passive and reactive and moves you into being productive and creative.
Oh and by the way, sometimes you being comfortable is the result that needs to be created; however, by asking “What result do I need to create?” makes your comfort a good and progressive thing.
So, what result do you need to create?
The ONE THING 